What NOT to Say

This is a spin off of Clinton and Stacy's What Not to Wear.  Well, kind of.  While I could definitely create an entire blog about what not to wear during pregnancy, this focuses on what not to say to a pregnant woman.  Although some of these things haven't been said to me, some friends and family have reported the direct quotes:

- "How much weight have you gained?"
- "When are you due?" (Looking at belly with big eyes as question is answered) "Wow, are you sure there's only one in there?"
- "Tony, what are you going to do when Elissa's belly is huge?"
- "Sorry but I can't wait until you can't fit into your clothes anymore."  (This definitely got an F off from me along with a smile.)

****Can I just say that gaining weight during pregnancy is HEALTHY for the mother and the baby, so why must other people make you feel guilty about it?  I hate that weight is the measuring stick by which we are all judged. 

-  "I want to know EVERYTHING.  Please make sure to keep me updated on every appointment and everything that you find out." (ranks up there with most annoying)
- Before baby is even born or first trimester is up- "When do I get to babysit?  I'd be happy to do it said days and times."
- "You look great for being pregnant."  (So, if I wasn't I'd look like crap???)
- "When I was pregnant, ___________ was horrible, and you're going to feel like __________ .  You're going to want to make sure to __________________ during delivery."